What is wedding guest etiquette for guests?

Being a good guest starts with the RSVP. Send your reply by the date asked, and let the couple know if your plans change later. This helps them with seating, food and numbers.

Dress for the venue and the time of day. A church wedding, a barn party or a seaside ceremony each have their own feel. If the invitation suggests a dress code, follow it, but do not feel you must spend a lot of money.

Arrive a little early so you are settled before the ceremony begins. If you are running late, let someone from the wedding party know. During the day, keep phones on silent and follow any instructions about photos or social media.

Gifts are a kind gesture, not an obligation. A card with a note is always welcome, and many couples now ask for contributions to their home or honeymoon instead of physical presents. If you are unsure what they want, a gift receipt or a cash envelope in a card is fine.

• Confirm your travel and accommodation plans early
• Ask about dietary needs or accessibility needs in advance
• Bring only the people named on your invitation
• Follow any instructions about children or plus ones

On the day, be present and kind. Say hello to the couple, thank them for asking you, and enjoy the celebration.