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What is the etiquette for wedding guest attire for women?

Answered by the UK Wedding Websites editorial team · Updated 2026-10-12 · For the bridal party · For guests

Short answer

Women should follow the dress code on the invitation, usually smart or formal. Avoid white or ivory, which are reserved for the couple. Choose something comfortable and appropriate for the venue and season, and check if there is a theme or colour scheme to respect.

The first rule is to read the invitation carefully. It will often state a dress code, such as black tie, formal, smart casual or garden party. If it does not, ask the couple or the wedding party. When in doubt, it is better to be slightly overdressed than underdressed.

Avoid white, ivory or cream outfits. These colours are traditionally reserved for the couple, and wearing them can cause upset. Pastels, bright colours, prints and darker shades are all fine, unless the couple has asked for a specific colour palette. Some couples ask guests not to wear certain colours, so respect that.

Think about the venue and season. A church or register office may have different expectations from a barn or beach. For a winter wedding, add layers or a smart coat. For an outdoor summer wedding, consider comfortable shoes for grass. If the ceremony is in a place of worship, check if shoulders or knees should be covered.

Accessories and hats are optional, but if the invitation says hats, wear one. Keep jewellery and makeup to a tasteful level. The main aim is to look polished and feel confident, while letting the couple shine. If you are unsure, a smart midi dress with a jacket or wrap is a safe choice for most UK weddings.

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