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Ceremony etiquette means arriving early, turning off your phone, and standing or sitting when asked. Do not talk during vows or readings. Follow the couple's lead on photos, and save your applause for the end unless the couple or officiant invites it.
Ceremony etiquette is about respect and attention. Arrive at least 15 minutes early so you are seated before the couple's entrance. Turn your phone off or on silent, and do not take photos or videos unless the couple has explicitly said it is allowed. Many couples now ask for an unplugged ceremony, so follow their wishes. During the ceremony, do not talk, whisper or move around. Stand when the couple enters, and sit when the officiant or couple indicates. If there are readings, hymns or prayers, join in if you feel comfortable, but it is fine to listen quietly. Do not applaud after each reading or vow. Save your applause for the end, when the couple is announced as married. If the ceremony is religious, be mindful of any customs, such as removing hats or standing for certain parts. If you are unsure, watch what others do or ask the couple beforehand. If the ceremony is civil, remember that it cannot include religious content, so do not expect hymns or prayers. For a humanist ceremony in England and Wales, note that it is not legally binding on its own, but you can still enjoy it as a meaningful celebration. After the ceremony, follow the couple's instructions for photos and confetti. Be patient and cheerful, and let the couple have their moment.
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