Who pays for a Sikh wedding?

Short answer

Traditionally the bride's family covers most costs, but today couples and both families often share the bill however works for them. There is no fixed rule.

Sikh wedding costs have changed a lot, and the old idea that only one side pays no longer fits most families. In the past, the bride's family would host and fund the whole celebration, while the groom's family contributed to specific events. Today, many couples pay for their own wedding, or split costs between both families based on what each can afford.

Common arrangements include:

The couple pays for everything and invites guests as a gift.
Both families split the venue, food and photography costs.
One family funds the ceremony and the other funds the reception feast.
Parents cover the Gurudwara donation and the feast, while the couple pays for the rest.

Be open about money early. Sit down with both families and agree on a total budget before you book anything. Decide who pays for what in writing, and keep receipts so there are no surprises. Remember that a Sikh wedding often includes several events, such as the Anand Karaj ceremony, a reception feast and other family gatherings. Each event may have a different payer. What matters most is that everyone agrees and feels comfortable. If money is tight, it is fine to keep the guest list smaller or to ask for contributions instead of physical gifts.