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Costs are usually shared between both families, though many couples now pay themselves. There is no single rule, and the split depends on your family's wishes and budget.
In many Hindu families, the bride's family traditionally covers most of the wedding costs, including the venue, food, photography and the ceremony itself. The groom's family often pays for specific events, such as the sangeet or the reception, but this varies widely across regions and communities.
Today, many couples choose to fund their own wedding, or split costs evenly between both households. This can take the pressure off either side and lets you decide how to spend the money. Talk openly about what each family can afford before you start booking anything.
You might also consider:
- asking close relatives to sponsor a particular element, like the mehndi night or the garland exchange
- keeping some traditions optional so you can cut costs without upsetting anyone
- setting a clear budget early and sharing it with the families who are contributing
If you are planning a legal ceremony in the UK as well, remember that rules differ from the religious ceremony. Check GOV.UK or speak to the register office or your place of worship for current details.
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