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The couple usually pays, but families often help with costs. You decide together who covers what, and it is wise to agree early to avoid misunderstandings.
There is no set rule for who pays for a wedding abroad. Many couples choose to fund their own celebration, especially when travel and venue costs are high. Others receive generous contributions from parents or grandparents. Some families cover specific parts, such as the ceremony, the reception, or the accommodation for guests.
Talk openly about budgets before you book anything. Write down who is paying for which item, from the venue fee to the welcome drinks. This avoids awkward conversations later and keeps everyone on the same page.
Remember that costs abroad can differ from home. Flights, visas, and local taxes may add up. Guests will also need to budget for travel, so be clear about what you expect from them. If you want a smaller guest list, that can help keep the overall cost down.
Whatever you decide, make sure it works for your family shape and budget. There is no right or wrong way to split the bill.
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