What are the 7 steps in a Hindu wedding?

Short answer

The seven steps, taken around the sacred fire, are each paired with a specific vow. They cover food and nourishment, strength, prosperity, family harmony, children, health, and lifelong friendship.

The seven steps are taken together by the couple around the sacred fire, with each step guided by a prayer spoken by the priest. The couple holds hands or the bride holds the groom's sash as they move. A relative or friend often recites the vow for each step while the couple steps forward.

The first step asks for nourishment and a happy home. The second asks for physical and mental strength to face life together. The third is for prosperity and the right use of resources. The fourth seeks harmony, trust and understanding between the couple and their families. The fifth asks for healthy children and good upbringing. The sixth is for good health and long life together. The seventh and final step is a pledge of eternal friendship and loyalty.

These vows differ slightly between families, regions and communities, so the exact wording may vary. If you are planning a legal marriage in the UK, remember that a Hindu ceremony needs to be in a registered building with an authorised person to be legally recognised, or you may add a civil ceremony. Check the register office or your place of worship for the current requirements.