What are the steps to planning a wedding for a beginner?

Begin with the big picture: agree a budget with anyone contributing, and decide roughly how many guests you want. These two numbers shape everything else. Next, pick a date and a venue that fits both. In England and Wales, you must give notice at your local register office at least 28 days before the ceremony, or arrange banns if marrying in a Church of England or Church in Wales church. In Scotland, submit a marriage notice at least 29 days ahead, and in Northern Ireland, 28 days. Your venue may handle some of this, but check.

Once the date is locked, book the essentials: registrar or officiant, photographer, caterer, and any entertainment. Then move to personal choices like outfits, rings, and readings. Send invitations about six to eight weeks before, and chase RSVPs. In the final weeks, confirm timings with all suppliers, do a seating plan, and write your vows if you are having them. Keep a simple checklist and tick things off one at a time. You do not have to do everything at once, and you can ask your wedding party or family for help.