How do I plan a wedding for dummies?

Planning a wedding can feel overwhelming, but it is just a series of small tasks. Start with the legal side. In England and Wales, you both need to give notice at your local register office at least 28 days before the ceremony. In Scotland, submit a marriage notice at least 29 days before, and in Northern Ireland it is 28 days. You must be 18 or over. Next, agree on a budget and a rough number of guests. This will shape everything else. Choose a date and a venue that fits your budget and style. If you want a civil ceremony, the venue must be approved, or you can use a register office. For a religious ceremony, talk to your place of worship about banns or a licence. Then work through the essentials one by one: invitations, outfits, rings, catering, music, flowers, photography and transport. Do not forget two witnesses for the ceremony. Use a simple checklist and tick things off as you go. Give yourself plenty of time, and remember that you do not have to do everything at once. Ask friends or family for help if you need it. The most important thing is that the marriage is legal and that you enjoy the day. Everything else is just detail.