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There is no fixed amount. Guests usually give money in an envelope as a gift, and the right sum depends on your budget and how close you are to the couple.
Giving money is a common tradition at Sikh weddings, and it is often done in an envelope at the reception entrance. This helps the couple start their new life together and can contribute toward their home or honeymoon. There is no set figure, and you should never feel pressured to give more than you can afford.
Think about your own budget, your travel costs if you came from far away, and how close you are to the couple. Close family and friends often give more, while distant relatives or work colleagues may give less. Some guests bring a gift instead, such as something for the couple's home. Both are perfectly acceptable.
If you are unsure, a modest sum is always fine. The gesture matters more than the amount. Write your name on the envelope so the couple know who it is from. If you cannot attend, you can still send a card with a gift or a contribution, and the couple will appreciate the thought.
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