How much money to give for a Jewish wedding?

Short answer

There is no fixed amount for a Jewish wedding gift. Most guests give cash, and the sum depends on your budget, how close you are to the couple, and your local customs.

Money is the most common gift at Jewish weddings, often given in an envelope or placed in a designated collection box. It helps the couple start their new life together. Some guests prefer a physical gift, but cash is usually welcomed and practical.

Think about what you can afford rather than following a rule. Close family and friends often give more, while colleagues or distant relatives may give a smaller amount. If you are unsure, ask a member of the wedding party or a family elder, as customs can differ between communities.

If you give cash, consider these points:

Use a card or envelope and write your name so the couple knows who it is from.
Bring it on the day if there is a collection box, or send it before or after the wedding.
If you cannot attend, a gift or card sent to the couple's home is still appreciated.

Religious rules about gifts can vary between traditions and regions. If you want guidance on what is appropriate for your specific community, ask the couple, their families, or check with the place of worship. There is no legal requirement to give anything at all.