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Traditional Jewish wedding gifts include money placed in a pushke or envelope, items for the new home, and charitable donations in the couple's name. The choice depends on family custom and the couple's needs.
Giving money is a long-standing tradition. Guests often place cash in a special box, called a pushke, or hand it over in an envelope. This helps the couple start their new life together and can be used for anything they need. Some families prefer to give money rather than physical gifts.
For those who prefer a physical gift, items for the new home are popular. These might include kitchenware, linens or decorative pieces. A tallit or mezuzah can also be meaningful, especially if the couple values religious traditions. Charitable donations in the couple's name are another option, reflecting the Jewish value of tikkun olam, or repairing the world.
If you are unsure what to give, ask the couple or check if they have a gift list. Some couples prefer contributions to a honeymoon fund or a specific cause. The most important thing is to celebrate their union and show your support. If you are unsure about customs, ask the couple or their family for guidance.
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