How much money should I give for a Chinese wedding?

Money gifts, often given in a red envelope, are a common way to celebrate a Chinese wedding. However, there is no fixed sum that everyone must give. The right amount depends on how close you are to the couple and your own financial situation.

Close family and friends often give more than casual acquaintances, but this is a matter of personal choice rather than a rule. Some people think about covering the cost of their meal at the reception. Others give a smaller, thoughtful amount. You might also consider giving a gift from the couple's list instead of cash if that feels more personal.

If you are worried about fitting in with what others give, remember that generosity comes in many forms. A handwritten note with your gift means a lot. The couple will appreciate your presence and your good wishes above all.

If you are unsure about the custom, ask a close family member or friend who knows the couple well.