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There is no set amount, but guests usually give a sum that covers their meal and adds a gift. Many people choose an even number or one ending in eight for good luck.
The right amount depends on your closeness to the couple, your budget and where the wedding is held. A common idea is to cover the cost of your place at the reception, then add a little extra as a gift. If you cannot attend, a smaller gift is still appreciated. Try to avoid amounts with the number four, as it sounds like death in Chinese. Numbers ending in eight sound like prosperity, so these are popular. Even numbers are generally seen as more auspicious than odd ones. If you are unsure, ask a fellow guest or a family member who knows the family customs. It is also fine to give a gift from the couple's registry instead of cash if that feels more personal. Whatever you give, present it in a red envelope as a sign of good wishes. The couple will value your thoughtfulness far more than the exact figure.
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