How much should a wedding guest give as a gift?

Short answer

There is no set amount for a wedding gift. You should give what you can comfortably afford, whether that is a cash contribution, a cheque or a present from the couple's list.

The most important thing is that your gift comes from the heart. Many couples now ask guests to contribute towards their honeymoon or a new home, and this is often the most helpful thing you can do. If you choose to give money, a card with a cheque or a bank transfer is usually the safest option.

If you prefer to buy a physical gift, check the couple's gift list first. This ensures you do not buy something they already have, or an item they will not use. Many couples set up a list specifically so guests can choose something meaningful without guessing.

Your relationship with the couple matters more than the price tag. A close friend or family member might give something more substantial, while an acquaintance might give a smaller token. Neither is wrong. What matters is that you have thought about what would make their new life together a little easier or more joyful.

Do not feel pressured to spend more than you can afford. Weddings can be expensive to attend already, with travel, accommodation and a new outfit. The couple will understand, and they will value your presence far more than any amount of money.