How much money should I give as a wedding gift in the UK?

Short answer

There is no set amount for a wedding gift in the UK. Give what feels comfortable for your budget and your closeness to the couple. Cash gifts often range from covering your meal to a more generous sum, but the thought matters most.

The amount you give as a wedding gift is entirely personal. There is no rule, no fixed figure, and no expectation that you should match what the couple spent on your place at the wedding. What matters is that you give something thoughtful and within your means.

If you choose cash, a common approach is to think about what you would normally spend on a gift for that person, then add a little if you are attending the wedding and they are covering your meal and drinks. But many guests give less, and many give more. Some couples now ask for contributions towards a honeymoon or a house deposit instead of a physical gift. That is fine, and you can give whatever you like.

If you are a close family member or in the bridal party, you might give more, but you are also likely spending on outfits, hen or stag dos, and travel. Be kind to yourself. A handwritten card with a small gift is always appreciated. Never feel pressured to give more than you can afford. The couple invited you because they want you there, not because of what you bring.