How much money should a grandparent give at a wedding?

Grandparents are usually asked to contribute generously, but the right amount depends entirely on your own finances and your relationship with the couple. Some give a large sum to help with a house deposit or their honeymoon, while others give a smaller, thoughtful amount alongside a special keepsake.

Think about what feels right for you and what you can afford without strain. A contribution towards something specific, like a new appliance or a family trip, can feel more meaningful than a large cash gift. If you are helping with the wedding costs, you may choose to give less at the ceremony.

Whatever you give, the couple will value the gesture and the thought behind it. If you are unsure, you can speak to the parents or the couple to see if there is a particular need. A card with a personal message alongside your gift makes it extra special.