How much money do you give a bride and groom on their wedding day?

Money is a common and welcome gift, but the right figure is entirely up to you. Some people aim to cover the cost of their meal and drink at the reception, while others give more if they are close family. There is no official guideline, so do not feel pressured to match what others give.

Consider your own finances first. A modest sum given with a heartfelt note is better than stretching yourself thin. If you are a close friend or family member, you might give more, but this is a choice, not an obligation. Many couples understand that guests have different budgets.

If you are unsure, think about what feels comfortable and appropriate for your relationship. You can also give money in a card, use a digital transfer if the couple have suggested it, or contribute to a specific fund they have set up. The gesture matters more than the number.