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How much money do you put in a wedding card in the UK?

Answered by the UK Wedding Websites editorial team · Updated 2026-10-12 · For guests · For parents

Short answer

There is no fixed amount, and you should only give what you can comfortably afford. Many guests aim to cover their own meal cost, but this is a guide, not a rule.

Money in a card is a generous and practical gift, but the right amount depends on your relationship with the couple and your own budget. You should never feel pressured to give more than you can spare. Some people think about covering the cost of their place at the reception, while others give a smaller amount as a contribution toward the couple's future.

Close family and friends often give more, but this is not a requirement. The couple will understand if you give less, especially if travel or other costs are involved. A handwritten note explaining your gift adds a personal touch that money alone cannot.

If you are giving cash, a card with a clear message is fine. Some couples prefer digital contributions through their wedding website, so check their details before you decide. Whatever you choose, your presence is the most important gift of all. If you are unsure about etiquette, remember that kindness and honesty matter more than the figure in the envelope.

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