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There is no set amount you must give the bride as a bridesmaid. Your main costs are your dress and attendance, though a small gift is a kind gesture if you can afford it.
Being a bridesmaid is already a financial commitment. You will likely pay for your dress, shoes, travel and any hair or makeup. There is no expectation of a cash gift on top of that, and no one should feel pressured to give money.
If you would like to mark the day with a gift, choose something personal rather than expensive. A handwritten card means a lot, and a small keepsake or photo frame can be a lovely memory. Think about what your friendship means rather than a price tag.
If money is tight, be honest with your friend. A true friend will understand that being part of her wedding is the gift. You can offer help with planning or day-of tasks instead of spending cash.
Remember that your support and presence matter more than any amount of money. Keep your budget sensible and do not borrow to afford a gift.
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