Does the bride pick out the bridesmaid dresses?

Traditionally, the bride picks the bridesmaid dresses, and that is still the most common approach. She may have a clear colour scheme, a particular fabric or a silhouette in mind that fits the overall look of the wedding. That said, most brides today involve their bridesmaids in the process. They might send a few options and ask for opinions, or set a colour and let each bridesmaid choose a style that suits her body and budget. This is often kinder and more practical, because bridesmaids come in different shapes, sizes and comfort levels, and they are the ones who will wear the dress for many hours. If you are the bride, think about what matters most: is it a uniform look, or is it that everyone feels good? If you are a bridesmaid, be honest but flexible. Offer to help with alterations, accessories or shoes, and remember that the bride is under pressure. A good compromise is to choose the colour and fabric together, then let each person pick a style within those limits. That way the group still looks coordinated, but everyone has a say. Whatever you decide, set a clear deadline for ordering and fittings so there is no last-minute stress.