What gifts are given during a Chinese tea ceremony?

The tea ceremony is about showing respect to your elders, and they respond with gifts of their own. Red envelopes containing money are the most common gift, and they symbolise good fortune and prosperity. Some elders give gold jewellery instead, such as bracelets or necklaces, which can be worn at the wedding or kept as a keepsake.

Families may also pass down heirlooms during this part of the day. A grandmother might give a piece of family jewellery, or an uncle might share a special family item. These gifts carry meaning beyond their value and connect you to your family history.

You do not need to worry about matching gifts or spending amounts, as every family does things differently. If you are unsure what to expect, ask your parents or elders what they usually give. The most important thing is to receive each gift with both hands and a thank you.