What is a Chinese tea ceremony and why is it part of a wedding?

The tea ceremony is a heartfelt way for the couple to honour their parents and grandparents. It is usually held before or after the main wedding events, often at the family home or a hotel suite. Serving tea is a gesture of thanks for the love and care that raised the couple.

In return, elders offer blessings and often give red envelopes with gifts or lucky money. This exchange strengthens family bonds and shows the couple's commitment to caring for their elders. The ceremony also publicly introduces the bride or groom to the wider family, which is especially meaningful for families living apart.

Many couples blend this tradition with their civil or religious wedding, keeping the legal part separate. The order of service, venue and timing can vary between families and regions. Check with your family elders and, for any legal matters, GOV.UK, the register office or your place of worship.