How do you perform a Chinese tea ceremony at a wedding?

Set up a low table with a teapot, cups and a tray. The couple dresses in traditional or smart wedding clothes and kneels or sits on cushions. They serve tea to the groom's family first, then the bride's family, or follow the order your families agree on.

Each elder receives two cups, one from each partner. The couple says a respectful greeting and may bow slightly. The elder sips the tea, offers a blessing, and often presents a red envelope, jewellery or a gift. The couple may also receive a token of welcome.

Plan the sequence carefully:

• Groom's grandparents
• Groom's parents
• Bride's grandparents
• Bride's parents
• Other elders

Keep the mood calm and let moments breathe. Some families add a photo session or a short speech. Timing can vary by region and family, so confirm details with your elders. For the legal side of your wedding, check GOV.UK, the register office or your place of worship.