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What should you put inside a red envelope besides money?

Answered by the UK Wedding Websites editorial team · Updated 2026-10-12 · For guests

Short answer

Besides money, you can put a small, meaningful gift like a gold coin, a piece of jade jewellery, a lottery ticket, or a handwritten blessing card. Avoid anything sharp or perishable.

Red envelopes, or hongbao, traditionally contain money, but you can also include a small, symbolic gift if you prefer. Good alternatives are a gold or silver coin, a small piece of jade or a lucky charm, a lottery ticket, or a short handwritten note with a blessing for the couple's future. Some families include a dried fruit like dates or longan, which symbolise fertility and togetherness, but these are best added by the couple's own family rather than guests. Avoid putting anything sharp, like a pin or knife, as it is considered bad luck. Also avoid perishable items, as the envelope may be kept for a long time. If you are giving money, the amount should be an even number, as odd numbers are associated with funerals, and the note inside can simply say 'Congratulations' or 'Wishing you a happy marriage'. The envelope itself should be new and bright red, with no writing on it unless it is a gold blessing. If you are unsure, a simple cash gift is always acceptable, and the couple will appreciate your thoughtfulness either way.

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