Do I give the couple money at a Chinese tea ceremony?

Giving money is a common tradition at Chinese weddings and tea ceremonies. It is presented in a red envelope, which is why it is sometimes called a red packet. The amount you give depends on your relationship to the couple and what you can afford.

Close family members and the bridal party often give larger amounts. Friends and colleagues give smaller sums. There is no fixed rule, so give what feels right for your budget. Many people choose amounts that end in an even number, as odd numbers are associated with funerals.

If you are not sure about the amount, ask another guest who knows the family. They can give you a good idea of what is typical. Some couples may have a gift list or a honeymoon fund instead. Check with the couple or their parents if you are unsure.

Present the red envelope with both hands as a sign of respect. You can hand it to the couple directly or place it in a designated gift box. Your presence and good wishes are the most important gift of all.