What is the history and origin of the Chinese tea ceremony?

Tea has long been part of Chinese culture, linked to respect, family harmony and gratitude. Over time, serving tea became a formal way for younger generations to honour their elders. At weddings, the ritual symbolises the couple's gratitude to the parents who raised them and their wish to care for them in the future.

The practice spread across regions and communities, so customs differ by province, clan and family. Some families use special cups, incense or specific poems. Red is a lucky colour, which is why red envelopes and decorations are common. The ceremony also marks the bride's or groom's entry into the other family, making it a public pledge of loyalty and respect.

Today many couples in the UK keep the tradition alive even when the legal wedding is civil. You can adapt the order, clothing and gifts to suit your family. For any legal or religious requirements around your ceremony, check GOV.UK, the register office or your place of worship.