How do I plan a Greek wedding?

First, sort out the legal side. In England and Wales, give notice at your local register office at least 28 days before the ceremony, and the wedding must happen within 12 months. In Scotland, submit a marriage notice at least 29 days ahead, and in Northern Ireland give notice 28 days before. If you want a Greek Orthodox ceremony, it is legally binding only if the building is registered for marriages and an authorised person is present. Check with your local Greek Orthodox church about their specific requirements, banns or licences, and confirm with GOV.UK if anything is unclear.

Then plan the cultural elements you love. Greek weddings often include the crowning ceremony with stefana, the sharing of common cup, the dance of Isaiah, and the breaking of plates or the smashing of a glass for good luck. You can incorporate these into a civil ceremony if the registrar agrees, or hold them as part of a blessing after the legal ceremony. Many couples have a short civil wedding to make it legal, then a full Greek Orthodox blessing with family and friends.

Think about the food, music and dancing too. Greek weddings are known for lively celebrations with traditional music, dancing in a circle, and plenty of shared dishes. Talk to your families about which customs are most important to them, and decide together how to honour your heritage while keeping the day manageable and joyful.