How do I plan a Nigerian wedding?

A Nigerian wedding often blends a traditional ceremony with a legal or religious one. Start by talking with your families about which parts matter most to you. The traditional ceremony, sometimes called the engagement or introduction, is rich with customs, including the bride price, symbolic gifts and family blessings. The legal marriage in the UK is separate, so you will need to give notice at a register office and have a civil or religious ceremony to make it legal.

If you are having a religious ceremony, such as a church wedding, check with your place of worship about their requirements, including counselling or baptism. A traditional ceremony on its own is not legally binding in the UK, so plan a short civil ceremony as well if you want the marriage recognised. The rules can vary, so check with your register office or the place of worship.

For the traditional day, you will need to organise traditional attire for the couple, families and bridal party. This often involves multiple outfit changes. Book your caterer early, as Nigerian weddings are known for generous food and drink. Plan for music, dancing and a master of ceremonies who understands the customs.

Think about the guest list carefully, as Nigerian weddings can be large. Send invitations well in advance, and consider a gift list or cash gifts, which are common. Work with your families to balance tradition with your own style, and allow plenty of time for planning.