What are the etiquette rules for guests at a Chinese wedding?

Chinese weddings often blend tradition with modern UK planning, and the rules depend on the family's customs. The most important thing is to be respectful and follow what the couple asks. If you are invited to a banquet, dressing smartly is expected. Many guests wear red, but avoid wearing white or black, which are colours linked to mourning. Do not wear all white, as it can be seen as unlucky.

The red envelope is a central part of the day. It should contain money, not gifts, and the amount usually reflects how close you are to the couple. Give it to the couple or the designated person at the entrance. Some families prefer cash in new notes. Do not open the envelope in front of others.

Arrive on time, as the meal is often served at a set hour. If you are attending a tea ceremony, watch quietly and follow the family's lead. Ask the couple beforehand about any customs you do not understand, such as seating or toasts. They will appreciate your care.

If you cannot attend, let the couple know as soon as possible and send your red envelope by post or transfer.