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Guests should avoid wearing all white or all black to a Chinese wedding, as these colours are traditionally linked to funerals. You should also avoid wearing the bride's chosen colour if the couple has asked guests not to.
Colour choices carry meaning at Chinese weddings, so it is worth thinking carefully about what you wear. White is traditionally the colour of mourning in Chinese culture, so a full white outfit can look out of place. Black is also associated with funerals, so avoid a head-to-toe black look.
Red is the colour of the bride in many Chinese weddings, so guests should not wear a red dress that could be mistaken for the bride's own outfit. If the couple has chosen a specific theme colour, ask beforehand whether guests should avoid it.
This is not a strict rule for everyone, and many Chinese weddings in the UK blend traditions. What matters most is that you look respectful and do not upstage the couple. A safe choice is a smart outfit in a mid-tone colour such as navy, burgundy, forest green or soft blue. If you are still unsure, choose something you feel confident in and ask the couple directly.
When in doubt, the couple or their parents will be happy to guide you.
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