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Yes, red is generally appropriate and often welcome for a Chinese wedding guest, as it symbolises luck and joy. It is one of the few colours you can wear without risk.
In Chinese culture, red is the colour of celebration, good fortune and happiness. It is the traditional colour of the bride's outfit, but guests are not usually expected to avoid it. Wearing a red dress, suit accessory or evening wear shows respect and shares in the joy of the day. Many Chinese families will be delighted to see guests dressed in this colour.
There are a few gentle things to keep in mind. If you are the mother of the bride or groom, you might choose a different shade to keep the focus on the couple. Very flashy, all-over red can look like you are trying to outshine the bride, so a tasteful outfit works best. If you are unsure, a deep burgundy or a red accent piece such as a scarf, tie or pocket square is a safe and thoughtful option.
Remember that customs vary between families and regions. Some families may have their own preferences, and your host may tell you what they like. If you have been invited to a specific cultural ceremony or reception, ask the couple or their parents what they would prefer. There is no legal rule about guest clothing, but matching the couple's wishes is always the right choice.
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