Can you wear white to a wedding as a guest?

Short answer

No, avoid wearing white to a wedding as a guest. White is traditionally reserved for the couple, and wearing it can look like you are trying to upstage them. Choose a different colour instead.

The rule about not wearing white is a strong tradition in the UK. It applies to dresses, suits and even outfits that are mostly white with a pattern. The reason is simple: the couple, especially the person in the white outfit, should stand out. Wearing white can cause upset, even if you did not mean any harm.

Some couples do not mind, but you cannot know for sure. It is safer to pick another colour. Cream, ivory, champagne and very pale pastels can also be risky, so steer clear of those too. If you love a white-based outfit, look for one with a clear dominant colour, like a floral dress with a coloured background.

If you are unsure, ask the couple or someone in the wedding party. They will appreciate you checking. The same rule applies to men, who should avoid white suits or white shirts with white trousers. A white shirt under a coloured jacket is fine, but the overall outfit should not be white.