What should the grandmother of the groom wear to a wedding?

There is no fixed rule for what a grandmother of the groom wears, but the aim is to look elegant and feel comfortable. Start with the dress code on the invitation, whether it is morning dress, black tie, smart casual or a themed wedding. Then choose a colour that fits the wedding palette without clashing with the immediate family. If the couple has a colour scheme, ask them or the mother of the groom for guidance.

Common choices include a knee-length or midi dress, a skirt suit, or a tailored trouser suit. Fabrics like silk, crepe or jersey drape well and are comfortable for a long day. Consider the venue and weather: a church or ceremony room may be cool, so a shawl or jacket is useful. For an outdoor summer wedding, lighter fabrics and a hat or fascinator may be appropriate, but check if hats are expected.

Shoes should be comfortable, as there is often a lot of standing and walking. If the grandmother is less mobile, a stylish flat or low heel is perfectly fine. The most important thing is that she feels like herself and can enjoy the day without fuss.