What is the etiquette for guests attending a Chinese tea ceremony?

The tea ceremony is a quiet, respectful part of the day. Guests should arrive before the ceremony starts so they do not interrupt the flow. Dress in smart, modest clothing and avoid white or red, which are reserved for the couple. Turn your phone to silent and keep chatter low.

Watch the family closely. The couple will serve tea to elders in a set order, usually starting with the groom's family and then the bride's. Guests do not take part unless invited. Stand when elders stand and bow slightly when receiving tea or gifts.

• Accept the tea cup with both hands.
• Do not rush the couple or ask for photos during the ritual.
• Wait for the family to invite you to the reception before moving on.

If you are unsure, follow the person next to you. The family will guide you. The ceremony is about honouring elders, not entertainment.