What is the etiquette for a church wedding?

Short answer

Church wedding etiquette centres on respect and punctuality. Arrive early, turn off phones, dress modestly, follow the service order, stand and sit when others do, and avoid talking during prayers. Guests should not take photos unless invited, and you should not throw confetti inside.

Church wedding etiquette is about honouring the sacred space and the couple. As a guest, arrive at least fifteen minutes early so you can be seated before the bride or couple enters. Turn off your phone or put it on silent, and never take photos or videos during the ceremony unless the couple or officiant has explicitly allowed it. Dress respectfully, which usually means smart or formal wear, and avoid anything too revealing. Follow the order of service, and stand, sit, or kneel when the congregation does. Do not chat during prayers or readings. If there is a collection, you can contribute if you wish, but it is not expected. Confetti is usually only allowed outside the church, and only if the church permits it, so check with the couple or ushers. At the end, let the couple and their wedding party leave first. If you are a parent or bridal party member, your role may include helping guests find seats and guiding them on when to stand. Always be kind and flexible, as church services can vary between denominations, and the vicar or priest will guide everyone.