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For a church wedding, guests should dress smartly and modestly. That usually means a suit or smart dress, with shoulders covered, and comfortable shoes. Avoid white or cream outfits, which are reserved for the couple, and follow any dress code on the invitation.
Church weddings call for smart, respectful attire. For men, a suit or smart trousers with a shirt and tie works well. For women, a dress, skirt or smart trouser suit is fine. The key is to cover your shoulders and avoid anything too short, low-cut or casual. Jeans, trainers and sportswear are usually not appropriate, unless the couple has said otherwise.
Comfort matters too. You may stand, kneel or sit for a while, and you will walk to and from the church. Choose shoes you can manage on paths, steps and possibly grass. If the service is in winter, bring a smart coat or jacket. In summer, a light shawl or cardigan can help if the church is cool.
Do not wear white, cream or ivory, as that colour is traditionally for the couple. Avoid very bright or flashy outfits that might draw attention. If the invitation mentions a dress code, such as lounge suit or smart casual, follow that. If you are unsure, ask the couple or a member of the bridal party. It is better to be slightly overdressed than underdressed. Also remember that some churches have specific rules about hats or head coverings, though these are rare in the UK now. When in doubt, keep it simple and elegant.
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