What is the etiquette for a Chinese wedding invitation card?

Short answer

Invitations are usually sent in red and include the couple's names, date, venue and host family. Guests reply by the stated deadline and bring a red envelope on the day.

Chinese wedding invitations often name the host family rather than just the couple. This reflects the importance of both families joining together. The card is commonly red, sometimes with gold lettering, and includes the full names of the bride and groom. It states the date, start time and venue, often with a map or directions.

Guests should reply by the date given so the hosts can plan the banquet. Many couples ask for a headcount in advance so food and seats are ready. If you cannot attend, tell the hosts as soon as possible so their numbers stay accurate.

On the day, guests arrive on time and bring a red envelope with a gift for the couple. It is polite to sign the guest book and offer congratulations to the couple and their parents. Children are usually welcome, but check the invitation if it says adults only.

Some families send digital invitations alongside paper ones. If you receive a digital invite, follow the reply method it gives. For legal details about the ceremony itself, these can vary, so check GOV.UK, the register office or your place of worship.