What is the etiquette for addressing RSVP envelopes for a Chinese wedding?

Short answer

Address the RSVP envelope clearly with each guest's full name and return address, and write it in both English and Chinese if you can. This helps guests reply easily and shows respect for their family.

In Chinese wedding culture, names matter a lot, so take time to get every spelling right. Write the full name of each adult guest on the RSVP envelope, and include their home address so they can reply without trouble. If the couple or their families speak Chinese, adding the Chinese characters for the names is a thoughtful touch. It shows you value their heritage and makes the envelope feel personal. Keep the wording simple and polite. You might write a short line such as 'Kindly reply by' followed by your chosen date. This gives guests a clear deadline without pressure.

Think about how your guests will send their reply. Many people now reply online, so you can include a link or a QR code on the RSVP card. Still, a pre-addressed, stamped envelope remains the most reliable option for older relatives who prefer writing. If some guests are unsure whether they can bring a plus one, put the guest list on the envelope rather than a vague 'and guest'. This avoids confusion and stops extra people turning up unexpectedly. It also keeps your seating plan tidy. If you are unsure about any religious or cultural detail, check with your family elders or your place of worship.