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Place the invitation, RSVP card, details card and any gift or red envelope instructions inside the outer envelope in that order, then seal it neatly. Keep everything flat and tidy so guests can open it with ease.
Start by laying out all the pieces you need to include. Put the main invitation at the back, followed by the RSVP card, then any cards with directions, accommodation or schedule details. If you are giving a red envelope or asking guests to bring one, place it last so it does not get lost. Fold each card gently along its existing crease so nothing looks creased or damaged. Do not force anything into the envelope, as this can tear the paper or make the envelope bulge.
Choose an envelope that fits the cards without bending them. A slightly loose fit is better than a tight one. If you are including a gift card or a small favour, wrap it separately and place it at the front for easy finding. Seal the envelope with a sticker or a wax seal, or simply fold the flap down if you prefer a clean look. Avoid overstuffing, which can make the envelope hard to post and look untidy.
If you are worried about postage, weigh the envelope before sealing it, since extra cards can add weight. For any religious or legal details about your ceremony, check with your register office or place of worship, as rules can vary.
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