What are the rules for married couples attending a same-sex wedding?

Short answer

There are no special rules for married couples attending a same-sex wedding in the UK. You attend as any other guest, with the same dress code, RSVP and gift expectations.

A same-sex wedding in the UK follows the same guest etiquette as any other wedding. Married couples are welcome to attend, and your marital status does not change how you should behave or what you should bring. The main things to focus on are the invitation, the dress code and the RSVP deadline.

Check your invitation carefully. It will say whether the ceremony is civil, religious or humanist, and this can affect what you wear. Some places of worship ask guests to cover their heads or shoulders. If the wedding is outdoors, think about the weather and choose shoes you can walk in.

Confirm your place on the guest list before bringing anyone. Only people named on the invitation are allowed, including any partners or children.
Reply by the date asked, even if you are declining.
Bring your gift or card to the wedding or send it to the couple beforehand, as their wedding website will explain.
If you are unsure about dress or customs, ask the couple or a member of the wedding party.

Religious or cultural ceremonies may have specific traditions. If you are not part of that faith, follow the couple's lead and ask if you are unsure. There is no need to worry about your own marriage when you are there to celebrate theirs.