What is the etiquette for a second wedding for a same-sex couple?

You are free to choose the size, style and venue that feels right for you. Many couples who marry again prefer a smaller, more relaxed celebration with close family and friends. This might be a civil ceremony at a register office or approved venue, or a religious ceremony if your faith allows it. Check with the register office or your place of worship for their specific rules, as these can vary.

You do not need to announce the wedding in the same way as a first marriage, though some couples still choose to send invitations. Gifts are not usually expected, but if guests ask, you can direct them to a gift list or a charity. Keep the tone light and focus on what you both enjoy, whether that is a big party, a quiet meal or a short ceremony followed by a celebration.

Your families may have questions, so talk openly about what you want. There is no pressure to follow tradition, and your day should reflect who you are.