What is the etiquette for an engagement party for a same-sex couple?

The couple hosting the party should send invitations and set a date that works for their nearest family and friends. You can choose a venue at home, a restaurant or a pub, depending on your budget and how many people you want to invite. Keep the guest list to those you would also invite to the wedding, unless you plan a separate celebration later.

If you are hosting, you might include a short speech or a toast to the couple. Gifts are not usually expected, but some guests bring a small present or a bottle of wine. If you are attending, bring a gift if you wish and reply to the RSVP by the date given. Dress smartly unless the invitation says otherwise.

For same-sex couples, there is no need to follow traditional roles. Either partner, or both together, can host and speak. If families have different expectations, talk about it early so everyone feels included.