What is the wedding seating etiquette for a same-sex wedding?

The old rule of putting the bride's family on one side and the groom's on the other does not apply. You can choose a layout that feels right for your day and your families. Some couples still use the traditional split if their families expect it, while others prefer a mixed arrangement that encourages everyone to meet. This can help avoid awkwardness if families are meeting for the first time.

You might also seat your bridal party together regardless of gender, or place them by their role rather than by sex. Clear signage or a seating plan with names makes things simple for guests. If you are worried about tension, talk to your parents or key family members early and agree on a plan together.

The most important thing is that your guests feel welcome and know where to sit. There is no right or wrong way, so pick what suits your family and your venue.