What should be in a wedding ceremony script for a same-sex couple?

Short answer

A ceremony script should include your welcome, your promises, any readings or music you choose, and the legal words required by your registrar or celebrant.

Start with a warm welcome that thanks your guests for travelling and for being there. You might share a short story about how you met or what you value in your relationship. This sets the tone for the rest of the day.

Next come your vows. These can be written by you, read from a book, or chosen together. Follow this with any readings, poems, or songs you want to include. Religious couples may add prayers or blessings, while humanist or civil ceremonies focus on personal promises. Remember that civil ceremonies in England and Wales cannot include religious content such as hymns or prayers.

The legal part is essential. In England and Wales, you and your witnesses must sign the marriage schedule or document on the day. Two witnesses are required. In Scotland, you need two witnesses aged 16 or over. If you are unsure about the legal requirements for your location or faith, check GOV.UK, your register office, or your place of worship. End with a clear pronouncement and a kiss, then walk out together as married partners.