What are some LGBT wedding readings and poems?

There is no rule about what you can read. Many couples choose poems that celebrate love in all its forms, such as works by poets like Mary Oliver, James Baldwin or Audre Lorde. Others prefer classic romance, from Shakespeare to E. E. Cummings, because the words feel timeless.

If you are having a religious ceremony, check with your place of worship first, as some traditions have specific guidelines about readings. Civil ceremonies in England and Wales cannot include religious content, but poems, songs and non-religious readings are fine if the registrar agrees. Humanist ceremonies offer the most flexibility, and in Scotland and Northern Ireland humanist celebrants can conduct legal weddings.

Consider who will read. A friend, family member or member of the bridal party can share a passage. You might also write your own vows or include a short letter to each other. The most meaningful readings are the ones that feel true to you.