What are some basic etiquette rules for ladies?

Modern wedding etiquette does not separate rules by gender. Everyone follows the same core expectations. The old idea that women must do more hosting or greeting work is outdated. If you enjoy helping, offer and be grateful when others help you.

That said, there are a few common courtesies that many people appreciate. Arrive on time for the ceremony and do not wander off during it. Keep your phone silent and out of sight while the vows are taking place. If you are seated at a table, introduce yourself to the people next to you so no one feels left out.

Dress in a way that fits the dress code and the venue. Avoid white or anything that could be mistaken for the couple. If you are unsure about shoes for a grass field or a long dance floor, choose comfort over style. Bring a small clutch for the evening and leave heavy bags at home.

Finally, send a thank-you message after the wedding. A short note or message means a lot to the couple. If you are unsure about any religious or cultural detail, ask the couple or check with the register office or place of worship.