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What are the typical responsibilities of a best man at a wedding?

Answered by the UK Wedding Websites editorial team · Updated 2026-10-12 · For the bridal party · For grooms

Short answer

The best man supports the groom before and on the day. Typical duties include organising the stag do, holding the rings, giving a speech, and making sure the groom is calm and on time.

The best man's role is mostly practical and emotional. Before the wedding, he usually helps plan and organise the stag do, which may involve booking activities, coordinating guests, and managing budgets. He may also help with suits, fittings, and transport arrangements. He should be a point of contact for the groom's friends and family if they have questions.

On the day, the best man often arrives early to help the groom get ready. He makes sure the groom has everything he needs, such as the rings, the marriage schedule or documents, and any speech notes. He helps the groom stay calm and on schedule, and he may deal with small problems discreetly.

During the ceremony, the best man typically holds the rings until they are needed. He may also sign the marriage schedule or document as a witness, if asked. After the ceremony, he helps with photographs and makes sure the groom is where he needs to be.

At the reception, the best man usually gives a speech. This can be heartfelt, funny, or short, but it should be prepared in advance. He may also propose a toast to the couple. Later, he helps gather guests for the first dance and ensures the couple's car or transport is ready. He should also collect any gifts or cards at the end of the night.

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