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Yes, traditionally the best man stands next to the groom during the ceremony, usually on the groom's right. But there is no legal requirement. You can arrange the bridal party however feels right for you.
In a traditional UK wedding, the best man stands with the groom, often on his right side, during the ceremony. He is there for support, to hold the rings if needed, and to hand over the vows or a pen. But this is a custom, not a rule. There is no law about where anyone stands. Some couples prefer the best man to stand on the left, or to sit in the front row until the vows. Others have the best man stand with the partner he is closest to, or even with both partners. If you have more than one best man, you can place them on either side of the groom. The key is to make sure everyone knows where to stand before the music starts. A quick rehearsal helps. The registrar or celebrant will guide you on the day, but they do not mind the arrangement. What matters most is that the best man feels comfortable and can do his job, whether that is holding rings, giving a speech, or simply smiling and passing tissues. Talk to your venue or officiant if you are unsure, but you are free to choose.
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