How much should a best man give?

There is no rule about how much a best man should spend on a gift. Your role is about being there for the couple, helping with planning, calming nerves and making sure the day runs smoothly. That support is often the most valuable thing you give.

If you do want to buy a gift, choose something thoughtful rather than expensive. A personal item, a framed photo from the wedding, or a contribution to their honeymoon fund can all work well. You might also team up with other members of the bridal party to buy one joint gift, which can be more generous without stretching anyone.

Think about what the couple would genuinely appreciate. Some couples prefer no gift at all, just your presence and help. If you are unsure, ask the couple or their families. They will almost certainly say your support is enough.

Remember, your speech, your organisation and your friendship are the real gifts. A modest, heartfelt present will mean more than something costly that feels impersonal. Spend what you can afford, and never feel pressured to match anyone else.